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 Not Attracted to Your Partner Anymore? Why Attraction Changes and What to Do

Not Attracted to Your Partner Anymore? Why Attraction Changes and What to Do

September 21, 2026

If you experience a change in physical or sexual attraction towards your partner, it can feel very confusing and upsetting. You may still feel strong love for your partner, but notice that there [...]

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 Finding Your New Normal: Coping With Chronic Illness, Physical Limitations, and Identity Changes

Finding Your New Normal: Coping With Chronic Illness, Physical Limitations, and Identity Changes

September 21, 2026

Life doesn’t always go as planned and often throws curveballs. Whether that’s disabilities, physical limitations, chronic illness, or injury, it can happen. When challenges alter our everyday [...]

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 Trying to Conceive: How Baby-Making Pressure Can Affect Men and Intimacy

Trying to Conceive: How Baby-Making Pressure Can Affect Men and Intimacy

September 21, 2026

The clock's ticking… It's baby-making time. Not exactly the sexiest phrase to get intimacy started. For many men, trying to have a baby with their partner can shift what was once a pleasurable [...]

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 Angry About Your Borderline Personality Disorder Diagnosis? Here’s What to Know

Angry About Your Borderline Personality Disorder Diagnosis? Here’s What to Know

September 21, 2026

You went to therapy because something wasn't working. Maybe it was relationships that keep ending the same way, mood swings that hit fast and hard, or the fear of being left that shows up even [...]

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 Bulking, Cutting, or Disordered Eating? How ‘Gym Bro’ Culture Hides Male Eating Disorders

Bulking, Cutting, or Disordered Eating? How ‘Gym Bro’ Culture Hides Male Eating Disorders

September 21, 2026

Are men sliding under the radar when it comes to eating disorders? As gym bro culture is on the rise, so are the disordered eating habits around it. There seems to be a big push for ‘healthy’ [...]

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 Speak your Kink! How to Talk to Your Partner About Your Kinks and Desires (Without the Awkwardness)

Speak your Kink! How to Talk to Your Partner About Your Kinks and Desires (Without the Awkwardness)

September 16, 2026

Understanding your desires and embracing them is incredibly important to self-acceptance and overall fulfillment. Internal acceptance is the first step; the next is how to expand this outside [...]

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 Understanding Compulsive Sexual Behavior: Signs, Science, and Healing

Understanding Compulsive Sexual Behavior: Signs, Science, and Healing

September 16, 2026

“Sex addiction.” “Hypersexuality.” “Porn addiction.” “Sexual compulsions.” While there are many terms to describe compulsive sexual behaviors, there are often many misconceptions in the media [...]

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 Why Sex Drive Changes Over Time (And How to Get It Back)

Why Sex Drive Changes Over Time (And How to Get It Back)

September 16, 2026

The start of a relationship, often called the honeymoon phase, can be exciting because everything feels new. The honeymoon phase is about enjoying being with someone you feel close and connected [...]

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 Sex, Shame, and Faith: How to Build Intimacy After a Religious Upbringing

Sex, Shame, and Faith: How to Build Intimacy After a Religious Upbringing

September 16, 2026

What do you do when the messages that taught you about God also taught you how to feel about your body, desire, and intimacy?

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 How to Talk to Your Partner About Erectile Dysfunction: 10 Communication Tips for Men

How to Talk to Your Partner About Erectile Dysfunction: 10 Communication Tips for Men

September 2, 2026

Before we jump into how to talk about Erectile Dysfunction (ED), it is important to understand what ED is. ED is a type of penile disorder that impacts the ability to get or maintain an erection.

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  • Stop Trying to Save Everyone: How to Support Loved Ones Without Burning Out
  • He’s Just Not That into You: How Radical Acceptance Can Change the Way You Date
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