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 What is Big “T” vs Little “t” Trauma?

What is Big “T” vs Little “t” Trauma?

November 17, 2020

Throughout my time as a therapist, I have noticed that when people speak about the term “trauma”, they often do so with a very limited definition of the word—and usually in a manner that [...]

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 What is Social Anxiety Disorder?

What is Social Anxiety Disorder?

November 16, 2020

If you have ever felt nervous before presenting a speech in class or a report in a team meeting, or felt your heart race as you pull up to a first date or before a conversation with your [...]

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 Understanding Personality Disorders – Part III: Treatment

Understanding Personality Disorders – Part III: Treatment

November 14, 2020

If you’ve been following along this blog series, you by now have a brief yet comprehensive introduction to the different types of personality disorders. If you haven’t read the first two blogs [...]

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 Why the change in season may be causing a change in your mood: Seasonal Affective Disorder

Why the change in season may be causing a change in your mood: Seasonal Affective Disorder

October 26, 2020

With the upcoming change in season can often come a change in mood as well. While some people are eager for the cold weather of winter so they can put on their cozy sweaters and drink hot cocoa, [...]

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 Amygdala Hijacking: The Science of Losing Your Cool

Amygdala Hijacking: The Science of Losing Your Cool

October 26, 2020

There are a number of physical experiences that come with getting angry or feeling frustrated or upset when we are in a situation that triggers us. If you have ever wondered what causes humans to [...]

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 Understanding Personality Disorders – Part II

Understanding Personality Disorders – Part II

October 19, 2020

Last month’s blog provided an introduction to personality disorders – what they are and how they may impact individuals and those close to them. While blog offered brief descriptions of three [...]

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 Diet Mentality: What it is, Why it’s Harmful and How to Ditch It

Diet Mentality: What it is, Why it’s Harmful and How to Ditch It

September 25, 2020

An important first step in healing your relationship with food through the Intuitive Eating framework is to Reject the Diet Mentality, but what is diet mentality? This term isn’t part of our [...]

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 Understanding and Challenging Fear During COVID

Understanding and Challenging Fear During COVID

September 24, 2020

Ask ten people “When’s the last time you’ve felt fear?” and there’s a good chance you’ll receive ten different answers: “the moment before the first big drop on a rollercoaster”, “when I missed a [...]

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 Understanding Personality Disorders

Understanding Personality Disorders

September 21, 2020

A personality disorder is a type of mental disorder in which you have a very rigid and unhealthy pattern of thinking, functioning and behaving. Personality disorders affect various areas of an [...]

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 Termination: When Therapy Comes to a Close

Termination: When Therapy Comes to a Close

September 15, 2020

The therapeutic relationship is unique in many ways, not the least of which is that the client and therapist enter into it with a mutual, ultimate goal of it ending it.  The broad plan is that [...]

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