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 Are You Overanalyzing Your Emotions Instead of Feeling Them? Understanding Intellectualization

Are You Overanalyzing Your Emotions Instead of Feeling Them? Understanding Intellectualization

July 10, 2026

Why does it often seem easier to explain why we feel the way we feel than it does to simply let ourselves feel? Everyone responds to emotions differently; however, many people develop defense [...]

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 Beyond the Injection: GLP-1s, Stress, and Body Image

Beyond the Injection: GLP-1s, Stress, and Body Image

July 9, 2026

It seems everyone is talking about the acronym that for some is a beacon of hope, while for others it can cause stress and body image insecurity. Expectations to start GLP1s and societal pressure [...]

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 Want More Intimacy? Start with the Small Moments

Want More Intimacy? Start with the Small Moments

June 18, 2026

Most couples don't lose intimacy all at once. It happens slowly, in the gaps between busy days, until one or both partners realize it's been a while since they felt truly close.

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 From Self-Doubt to Self-Trust: 10 Ways to Build Lasting Confidence

From Self-Doubt to Self-Trust: 10 Ways to Build Lasting Confidence

June 17, 2026

I don’t want to say it’s all in your head because that’s not fair. But those feelings are natural and all too common, especially when everyone around you seems more qualified, more competent, [...]

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 EMDR Isn’t What You Think: Breaking the Biggest Myths About Trauma Therapy

EMDR Isn’t What You Think: Breaking the Biggest Myths About Trauma Therapy

April 20, 2026

EMDR. Isn’t that the thing that erases your memory? My friend did EMDR, it was like hypnosis! EMDR *eye roll* that doesn’t work - there’s no evidence … I heard you have to talk about all your [...]

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 Is Age Really Just a Number? Navigating Conversations Between Young Women and Older Men

Is Age Really Just a Number? Navigating Conversations Between Young Women and Older Men

April 20, 2026

Navigating conversations with older men can be challenging, especially for young women. How can we address clear generational and cultural gaps when engaging with older men feels like a [...]

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 How EMDR Rewires the Brain: Understanding Memory Networks and Trauma Healing

How EMDR Rewires the Brain: Understanding Memory Networks and Trauma Healing

April 20, 2026

When a person experiences a trauma, the memory can often feel “stuck in time” because the way our brains store traumatic memories differs from the way our brains store normal, everyday memories. [...]

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 Heart vs. Hardship: Loving Someone with Severe Mental Illness

Heart vs. Hardship: Loving Someone with Severe Mental Illness

April 17, 2026

Loving someone has been described as one of the most powerful, grounding, and impactful experiences in life. It can feel like a partnership where both people grow, support each other, and build [...]

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 Competence at a Cost: Healing the Hidden Wounds of Childhood Parentification

Competence at a Cost: Healing the Hidden Wounds of Childhood Parentification

April 16, 2026

For many adults, aging family members and chronic illness prompt existential concerns about the future. A silent "countdown" can begin when witnessing a relative's decline. Family members may [...]

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 Beyond Talk Therapy: How EMDR Breaks Phobias and Addiction at the Root

Beyond Talk Therapy: How EMDR Breaks Phobias and Addiction at the Root

April 16, 2026

Two areas of treatment outside of trauma-informed care, in which EMDR can be just as effective, are phobias and addiction. Both situations may be in response to learned fears or negative [...]

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